The Dating Game

There is no denying relationships are complicated, especially those that originate from a particularly close friendship. Oftentimes it is these situations that baffle the dating population. I suppose I am biased due to my own life experience, but perhaps that is the key to offering advice--actually living it. My first year at Hogwarts brought with it the beginning of a friendship strengthened my our troll encounter, casting spells--Wingardium Leviosa!--and of course the adventure with the Sorcerer's stone. I must admit that Ronald's prowess and ingenuity with the Wizard's chess was a pleasant surprise. There was many bouts of bickering of course, but I have come to realize that this is simply a way of expressing interest and initiating conversation. Sarcasm dominates modern society and is a key element in flirtatious behavior. While it certainly does win attention, it may also cause unnecessary complications in a relationship. There comes a certain point in time where you must be straightforward and just say what you mean and express how you feel. So much time is wasted when this step is avoided--trust me, I know. My relationships was 7 years in the making. Granted, being open and honest is a scary thought and a rather intimidating situation, but I promise it is absolutely worth the risk. Living in the unknown limbo phase is absolutely maddening. Being honest in a relationship allows you the opportunity to, if the feelings are mutual, progress and move forward or, if the feelings are not shared, move on and explore new options. Thus, honesty is the best policy. No one can read minds, and girls seem to avoid initiating any first step, so I suppose the responsibility falls to you boys. Are you up for the challenge?